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A lot of students have a problem of not knowing what to say after the opener, which was a problem that I needed to overcome at one point of my PUA journey.

The common situation is that you deliver your opener, and then you try and transition the conversation away from your original question, which can [...]

I don’t know why I waste my time with silly e-mail blasts any more from any of the “gurus,” but a few weeks ago (sadly I deleted this instance because I’d love to use his own words) I got a report that sounded and implied that it was a 3-some with two 10’s. I was actually very impressed, and it imparted some sound knowledge.

But then this comes through last night:
“Q. Did you use the dual induction massage / drinking games / truth or dare / insert random cheesy threesome technique here?

No. And I do want to point out that I didn’t end up taking the threesome either; I was way more focused on getting my runway model home before one of the million things that could have gone wrong, did.”

Typical community smoke & mirrors. I’d expect something like this from a LSE newbie who wants a few pat on the backs, but one of the “best” out there? Pathetic man.

I saw Vicky Cristina Barcelona tonight, and I thought it was awesome.

The main male character just oozed sexuality. I smiled and giggled all the way through the movie because he is exactly what most men are not. Direct, honest, and a threat to all boring men everywhere. Yes, he had his “passive” attraction right – ie. artist, good looking, Spanish, etc, but his BL and eye contact are awesome. Not to mention this movie thematically talks about polyamory, women getting bored with their men, and has loads of incredibly sexy women to stare at (and incredibly romantic scenery).

I recommend you all check it out. A few caveats – I have a major boner for both Barcelona & Penelope.

Alright gotta go, my buddy Emergency is in town, and I’m going to go meet him and his friends!

PS. I’m going to have to get some linen button downs for my wardrobe!

I went out solo tonight. Notes:
-Going out solo is more fun than going with community guys
-make vibing more natural
-calibrate (literally just a time/experience issue)
-choose a target, even if both are enjoying it
-don’t move around so much
-kino slowly and consistently and ESCALATE CONSTANTLY
-SLOW DOWN
-don’t qualify yourself unless it’s conscious to calibrate value
-don’t talk about work
-learn how to dance with a female on dancefloor
-chill out the dancing monkey man
-go for makeout ASAP
-don’t half-ass escalation
-stay out long as possible and open more sets

going out alone was liberating, nerve-wracking and fun. I pretended to be from California visiting Boston because I wanted the clean break from the area, etc. I guess it was a mental thing to help me socialize. Also, people were dicks to me all day long, so I’m kind of disillusioned about the nature of Boston.

Been on a massive crapfest lately. New lows of self-esteem galore!
I’m doing this thing where I’m consistently improving some points of my life (meditation, withholding the hand to a moderate level, running, and sarging). Free times means more potential sarging time.

I did part of the Brad P. social freedom exercise (as much as I could do before sheer fright overtook me). I got a score that is below average, meaning I’m more socially anxious than the average person. Of course, I did COMPLETELY freak myself out beforehand.

No solicitors approached me, and I really didn’t feel comfortable approaching them. Well, guess what?! Tomorrow, I WILL approach them, and start talking.

Just starting a random conversation is overwhelming for me. For hot girls, it’s a battle between overwhelming social anxiety and how hot/attainable they are. If it’s a hot hot girl who I might have a *shot* with, I will usually try my best to avoid the social anxiety. I think the SA is fucking with my openers when I do that, though, so I’m going to do these social freedom exercises until I get that shit handled. That means every day unless it’s not possible.

I feel very lonely lately. Pretty much every aspect of my life is in the dumps right now. I have almost no friends, I have basically no established romantic prospects, I have no job, nor any prospects for a job forthcoming, and all kinds of negative shit I could list but won’t.

Let’s move onto the exercises I did today.
1. EC- Hard to find 3 people who were looking at me, and I did feel anxiety when looking at guys, making them think I was gay or something.
2. Ask for the time- EASY
3. Ask for directions- EASY
4. Ask for directions with 30 seconds of small talk- initially difficult to find a “good” candidate, but easy because the girl ended up being Japanese, so I chatted to her briefly about tourism in Boston and Tokyo. Also she had sweet Angelina Jolie Hackers hair.
5. Small talk with store clerk- Pretty poor. I asked the guy for directions to the water, and BRIEFLY BRIEFLY mentioned how I had fre time and a book, and I wanted to zone out, and then confirmed the directions. Chode.
6. Rapport seeker- No one approached me, and I didn’t want to approach this big fat guy tending the doors at the 7-11 nor the hip hop CD selling guy who was chatting with his buddy. Chode.
7. Talk to clerk after getting rung up- Didn’t totally accomplish this. I started talking to the clerk about the spring clothes going on clearance, but she led me awayt from the counter. I briefly chatted about the clothes, very “on-topic”. Semi-chode.
8. Tell a joke to someone I know- who do I know that I…? Anyway, I sent the first line of a joke to a friend but he never texted back.
9. Dance a little- Easy.
10. Walk down the street singing- Fairly easy.
11. Walk up to a stranger, start convo, don’t stop until he laughs- Didn’t do it. CHODE.
12-18. Didn’t do them. FULL CHODE. They were way too scary for me. I really suck at pushing myself, or I’m a total agoraphobic. Anyway…

That’s the rundown today. I’m going to keep pushing myself for a while, hopefully. I tend to not push myself.

I believe a wing will GREATLY assist me in completing these tasks and giving me a boost.

One of my recent clients really wanted some tips on what to do with his hair so it inspired me to write this article. This will be the first article in a series we’re doing on hair. Let’s get to it:
The Best Hairstyles for Your Face Shape
One of the biggest mistakes I see guys [...]

You’ve all been there.
You are in set, you’ve got the girl talking to you, laughing, giving IOI’s.
It feels good.

You know that you need to move the interaction forward.
“Should I make out with her?”
“Should I go caveman?”
“Is this the right time?”
and then…
“No… making out is too bold or holding hands is too bold… shows too much [...]

I’ve just been browsing Thudercat’s seduction lair, and have seen a young, very creepy looking Ross Jeffries (remind you of Screech anyone?) try to argue the benefits of Satanism to a crowd of braying morons. Yes really. Check out the youtube videos, they’re hilarious.
I’m not sure why I love watching irreverent clips like that, but [...]

I have been out every night this week. Mostly because of the convention watch parties at various bars. I realized on Monday that this was the first time I had be out completely by myself since probably the beginning of this year. No friends, no co-workers, and SLA guys. What I found out is that I had slide back into bad habits when I'm not with someone or a group a people.

Now, am I being hard on myself, because maybe I'm in search of that elusive perfect set. I opened 3 single sets, 2 2-sets, and a mix 5-set and number closed twice on Monday. I basically went with "Hey, I'm Sniper" – I have yet to figure out why this works better for me rather than a basic opinion opener. So my routine was open, fluff, banter, funny story, banter – I basically was going off the cuff which as you most of you know if ain't interesting you're going to lose the set fairly quickly; that's exactly happened with my first set, but I got the first done quickly, it was probably the fastest I have ever opened. It went like this.

Open bar door, see girl, walk over to girl, open girl, fluff talk with girl, girl starts to get bored, politely ejected. (Hahahaha)

But it was all good. And it was relief to get that first set out of the way. Everything went better after that, I was rusty and out of my element, I still plowed on and had a blast.

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