There are people I know who have never even heard of The Game by Neil Strauss, let alone read it, who are naturally confident, funny, and good with women. They’re naturals, and there is something about them which women find irresistible.
Granted, there are literally only a couple of people I’ve met in my life who [...]
I was looking at this site, which is frightening. It is just a website, and could easily be inaccurate, and I should do more research before I post all my findings. I’m posting this shit ANYWAYZ!!!
http://www.lawlib.state.ma.us/sex.html.
It is a site with all the sex laws of the commonwealth of Massachusetts.
Check it:
-It is illegal to have sex w/ 18 year olds, although it’s only been prosecuted once in 1987.
-Fornication is illegal and punishable by 3 months or 30$.
-Adultery (whether or not you are the married or nonmarried person) is illegal, and punishable by state prison of 3 years, jail for 2, or up to 500$.
These are probably wrong, but I’ve fornicated in Massachusetts before. Oh shit. I probably owe the government money.
Last year, I was going out by myself and sometimes with wings to Fanueil a lot, and in a moment of deja vu (walking through the cold in my nice shoes), I had an image of myself a year ago doing something similar. In fact, as my brain progressed, I realized that a lot was similar to last year. If you ignore all the mental beliefs I’ve incorporated since a year ago, both positive and negative, not a lot has changed. I’m jobless again, my social skills are slightly better, but not massively so. I actually have less friends. 
What gets me angry- after all this time spent in the field and reading and learning and sweating and bleeding, my PU skills have increased maybe 10%, tops. And that’s 10% better than a pretty raw number, it’s not a nuance on a finely honed game. It’s like 10% better than a big block of marble. It looks like a human figure. Or a manatee. Not angry. I’m not angry about it, nor am I overwhelmingly frustrated. I’ve experienced so much frustration in my life that I tend to just ignore anything that makes me frustrated, which isn’t good.
I chalk up my lack of progress to a lack of consistency. I’ll have my little streaks of 24 hour daygame into nightgame and crash on a couch nights, but then I would have a week of self-indulgent video games and low self-esteem. Also low sex drive. Probably from poor eating habits and constant masturbation.
Bleak.
-DO NOT half-ass escalation
-open more often
-smile on open
-don’t address whole group if you don’t have to
-kino earlier
-aggressive on dancefloor
-merge forward to 8+ sets (they were all ice cold to me, same with asian cliques)
-open first set you see, continue for 20 min. to get into state
-do not wait for others to take lead (especially on entrance of location)
-ignore everything that won’t help me
Alex T. asks:
Hey man,
I was always the youngest in my grade because i skipped kindergarden when i was 6. Why my parents thought this to be a good idea I do not know (I thought it was a good idea because I was 6 god damnit and who the hell wants another year of school.) [...]
This fall we’re bringing back the classic MAN.
Trends come and go, but classic menswear is eternal.
Looking towards the runway can give us inspiration, but how do we actually bring some of these looks into our outfits?
In this article, I’m going to give you a quick list of some of this fall’s most practical and ready-to-wear [...]
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My stress level at this current moment in time is very, very high.
I’ve been working a ton of hours preparing for a huge business trip next week, and I’ve remained relatively cool and calm through it all, but last night it just all hit me at once and I started getting really cranky.
This morning, short on sleep again, I was feeling much better. But then a few things happened today to really piss me off, and now I’m at a “snapping” level. If someone says anything retarded to me tonight, I might explode.
So here I am, about 50 minutes away from having about 8-10 people at my apartment and then we are all going to head to a big art party (think First Fridays for you Bostonites). I’m not in the mood to do anything, I’m tired, my body is sore, and my mind is all over the place.
One of the things I’ve really come to value about myself has been my greatly improved ability to look bullshit in the eye, turn it off, stay cool, and let my cooler head prevail. In learning how to not fly off the handle, I’ve also developed a keen awareness of how to act in high pressure situations (drunk friends getting ill, police, fights at bars, etc.) So here’s what I am going to do right now:
1. Put on some new tunes that I am really digging (the soundtrack to Vicky Christina Barcelona actually) that just exudes sexy and puts me in the right headspace
2. Clean my apartment up, and declutter my mind
3. Light some incense (a sensory way for me to relax)
4. Do a few minutes of yoga
5. Meditate in the shower
6. Get ready to entertain and rock the fuck out tonight with some great friends
I cannot control my work issues that are going to make me go in tomorrow, so there is no reason to bitch and moan about something I can’t impact or influence at all right now. The only thing I can do is chill out, relax, and enjoy my friends.
Complaining, bitching, moaning, and lamenting are all acts of the inner chode. Never concern yourself with that you cannot control.
Time to go enjoy myself!
Most people in this community are aware of the transformations that The Game can achieve. None are more dramatic than that of Strauss himself, who went from being a dateless AFC who wondered if he would ever find someone, to becoming a sliver tounged Lothario, capable of seducing women on a level, and even becoming [...]
I read this today and nearly pissed my pants. I want to try this ASAP…
