I was chatting to a friend of mine recently who told me an interesting story about pick up artists running into the long arm of the law in central London, which brought back memories of the three PUAs who were recently arrested after being mistaken for pickpockets.
In this instance two PUAs were out filming some [...]
I hit a hot streak, got feeling pretty good and primed to grab a bunch of digits and butts, and then I stopped going out and have probably gone back to square two, maybe square one. I always sabotage this stuff when I’m getting somewhere. The mind reels what would happen if I kept going.
It’s generally recognized that there are three stages of being a PUA. Attraction, comfort, and seduction. Most men can easily relate to the benefits of attracting and seducing a girl, but not so many see the value in building comfort, even though it’s a vital stage of seducing a girl.
If you go straight from attraction [...]
Saw something vaguely similar on Kinowear or GQ. Lots of shit tests on the tie that night. Will wear it more often.
This outfit got me the most AI I’ve ever had in daygame. It bought me at least 2-3 minutes with this hottie from Florida that I was boring. Note the J-guy hat that you always see the “cool” azn dudes wearing. You can’t see from the front, but it’s baggy and extends to the nape of my neck. With all the AZN shit, this outfit is designed to bait AZN girlies.
Not a lot of AI from this, but I thought it was a well-put-together outfit. Wanted to use that jacket, it’s been gathering dust for a while. A little bit of white-offwhite interference going on.
EDIT: I’m looking really weird in all 3 pictures. What’s up with my face? Anyway, it’s a start. Hopefully, the outfits get more fine-tuned as I progress.
Here’s the first LR I’ve written since I decided to leave out all personal information about the girl. I really feel that there is a certain amount of trust between people when they decide to have sex and that writing LRs breaks that trust. However I also believe that LRs help guys and if me writing this LR can help someone meet an awesome girl that makes them happy than it’s worth it.Everything I don’t want to share with you will be replaced with some sort of XYZ.
And now that I’m done talking about strange moral dilemmas onto the LR.
I’m teaching a 1 on 1 and it’s 1:30am. The venue closes in 30 minutes and my student is talking to two girls and a guy. I’m standing nearby observing what is going on in his set.
A girl starts walking in my direction away from the bar. I stop her and open her direct.
Doc: I like your -wave my hands around my head-
Girl: What’s -waves her hands around her head-
Doc: Your hair
Girl: This – waves hands around her head- means hair?
Doc: Yeah… pretty much.
Girl: Thanks then?
Doc: No, I like really mean it as a genuine compliment and not some bar bullshit. I appreciate cool hair and not enough people have it.
Girl: I really like your hair too
Doc: I’m Doc
Girl: I’m -insert girl name here-
Girl: Wait, one, two, three – she points to my ear and lip piercings-
Doc: four, five, six…
Girl: You have more?
Doc: Yeah
Girl: -points at my nipples-
Doc: -Nod my head yes-
Girl – Tries to lift up my shirt-
Doc: Woah, slow down girl
Girl: What’s the sixth? -really sly smile-
Doc: Yeah, I have that one.
Girl: Oh my God! Really? Like a Price Albert?
Doc: No, that’s for pussies. I have an XYZ piercing
Girl: Haha, that’s insane! I have X piercing and Y piercing
Doc: That’s awesome! I love girls with piercings. I’m gonna take you out of here and marry you tonight.
Girl: I’m from XYZ country so you’ll be a citizen
Doc: Ok I was kidding before but now I’m serious. Who are you here with?
Girl: -Introduces me to her friends-
Doc: -I shake all of their hands and introduce myself- GIRL is my new best friend. I’m probably gonna keep her
At this point a dude who was in her peer group realizes she’s into me and puts his arms around both of us and starts talking. Enter cock block guy number one. I can’t try to AMOG this guy. She’s friends with him and me being a dick is just going to piss him and her friends off. I just try to play it cool by getting in with the rest of her group. I take his arm off of me in a polite way and shift my attention to the rest of her friends and my student.
I put my student into another set and talk to her friends, get their stories, and talk to them about what I do and where I’m from.
I go over to my girl and reach out to her. She takes my hand, I spin her, and pull her into me
Doc: So what do you do?
Girl: I’m a XYZ
Doc: No way! That’s so cool! I work in film so I know a lot of XYZ.
Girl: What do you do in film?
We talk for about 5 minutes about what we do and where we live before that same guy comes back and pulls her away.
My student is out of the set and it’s now 1:45AM. He asks if I can pull her and I tell him probably if he doesn’t mind. I always go out with the intention not to pull unless the student does when I’m coaching. But it’s 1:45 and he doesn’t care.
I go back to the girl for about a minute and just check in with her and let her know that I’m still here. She’s still talking to her cock block guy friend who is obviously trying to take her home.
I go back to my student and start to debrief the night. One by one her friends start to leave and are saying bye to me before walking over to my girl and her cock block guy. It’s actually pretty hilarious, he’s trying to talk her into going home with him and every thirty seconds one of her friends walks into their conversation and fucks it up. Eventually he just walks away and leaves her in the bar.
We finish debriefing and the only people left are me, my student, my girl, and one of her random guy friends who’s also obviously trying to take her home.
I walk behind his back and stick my tongue out at her so only she can see it. She more less just walks away from her guy friend and comes over and hugs me. The guy walks over and she tells him to have a goodnight. He looks half confused, half pissed, and walks away. It was pretty cool how she dismissed him like that.
We talk for another three minutes until the lights come on. I already know where she lives and I lead her outside.
By this time in the set we’ve probably spent about 15 minutes talking and 30 minutes in the same area. I’ve escalated my touching pretty well, I’ve hugged her, had my hand on her lower back, held her hand, touched her hair, she’s rubbed her hand down my chest and rested her head on my shoulder when I pulled her into me. I haven’t kissed her although I probably could have. I only like to kiss girls once I’m fully isolated and no one can really watch us.
We start to walk and about half way to her house she fully realizes that I’m taking her home.
Girl: Something about not really knowing me and how we just met.
I take this as a sign that she needs more comfort to let me inside her place and fuck her. I don’t reply to her not knowing me comment and change the subject to my mom and start building a connection.
Doc: It was so funny I talked to my mom and her girlfriend the other day and–
Girl: You’re mom is gay?
Doc: Yeah, XYZ about my mom, family, growing up, etc.
I really would like to write up a full transcription of the next 25 minutes of our conversation but it would take forever and I don’t want to share that much of my or her life with the entire internet.
We go really deep into comfort, I talk about my family, growing up, how I’m gonna be an uncle, my plans to couch surf across the US, her family, my attempted suicide, some of her deep shit. Basically I blast her with everything I’ve got.
The really cool thing is that during the conversation it hits me that I really like this girl and that I’m going to want to hang with her again. There is something to be said about creating a really deep emotional connection really quickly. the girl gets really into you but you also get really into her, it goes both ways. I really I don’t think “creating” is the right word, all I’m going is leading her to the connection by sharing myself first, there is nothing artificial about it.
We end up kissing in front of her apartment and during the rubbing together and whatever her boob almost pops out.
Doc: You almost lost a boob there -As I fix her top-
Girl: It happens
Doc: Yeah me too
Girl: That easy?
Doc: Pretty much, but not outside, I’m cold.
Girl: Haha, come with me.
We go inside, I pee, we have sex for a few hours, and finally pass out.
Meet to lay was about one hour. It wasn’t awkward in the morning, no buyers remorse, etc.
She’s a really awesome girl and meeting her actually made me have more faith in girls at night. Besides her every girl I’ve ever met in a night time venue I have never really wanted to hang out with again. She was a breath of fresh air.
I went out Thursday, Thursday night, Friday, Friday night, Saturday, not Saturday night, and I’m going out later today, Sunday. not surprisingly, this momentum has got me in something of a streak. Nothing amazing, but it’s hotter than usual by far.
My sticking point in daygame is not smiling enough and not vibing better/more smoothly. Not surprising that going out a lot changes your game. i’m starting to see some things, such as how to run a real night game sarge (lots of kino and dominance). Being visibly frightened in set isn’t good, nor is being a little girly boy who doesn’t express interest.
Dressing well increases the AI I get several fold. I wore an extremely edgy stylish outfit and even moderately attractive girls were giving me the eye. It is noticeable how dressing to your look makes a difference. I’m going to put up some pictures soon. Every time from now on, when I like the outfit I’m wearing, I’ll post it up on the blog or something, because I’m starting to understand fashion now. It’s a lot like music. You’ll have a basic chord with three or four notes that fall directly in line with the “normal” chord, but then you’ll add an accentuating note, or change one of the basic notes in a way that adds a layer of suspense or juxtaposition of two ideas. This analogy should only be working for me, as it’s way too specific and Evan-brained. Anyway matching ‘threads’ of color, like hints of green (green shoes, stripes on hat, writing on shirt), etc. makes a outfit really shine.
I chatted up a HB9 indian chick but for some reason didn’t go for her number, although I heavily heavily suspected she had a boyfriend and wasn’t as sexually attracted to me as she could have been.
So what’s the fastest way to improve my image?
Many guys ask me to show them the right path to get on towards finding their best style. One thing I always tell them is to consistently model after stylish people they admire.
Women do this all the time, and it’s the reason why the majority of them [...]
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Went out, opened one asian girl, she smiled in a no thanks, I hdon’t have any spare change kind of way, and walked away.
Depressing day out.
Asian women are rough. I rarely get good reactions. Limiting belief: I can’t bone them unless I’m in the social circle.
I’m totally bummed out. I feel like a freak. But if I let up now, I’ll end up lonely and alone and bitter and crapy. I’m not going to dabble, I’m going to immerse and excel.
